Ask yourself this question, “What can I do when it feels like my life isn’t moving, or progressing?” Think about it. The question says, “What can I do” ? If you have been following me for some time here on this blog, then you know from a previous post Left out that there has been times when I’ve felt literally left out in things.
I felt like everyone was enjoying their lives and I wasn’t. People, my friends, family members, they are always so happy. They have such great things to speak of as far as their experiences in life. They are literally out weekly socializing, traveling, and making money.
I was surrounded by people but yet I felt stuck in a isolated state of mind. I’ve learned that to an extend this is normal. Sometimes, its good to sit back and reflect on life. Think about your life, while acknowledging that the times of the past are just that….the past. You can’t change the experiences that occurred back then. But you can turn those same experiences into life lessons. Boy, do I have lots of life lessons. Do you?
Since my post, Left out I have learned that I can’t control the things that happen in my life all the time. I have to be patient and wait on God to move. God’s timing is always the right time. Personally, as I write this, I am trying my best to truly instill that into my mind, body and soul. I want to eliminate the thoughts that my life isn’t moving as I want, so therefore the things that I want in my life won’t ever happen. It’s easy to look at someone else’s life and want what they have. It’s easy to wish that someone else sitting beside you can live a day in your shoes and learn to appreciate your tenacity because of your struggles. But guess what? Most times, that person may never understand. They may have experienced similar life situations, but its not identical.
We are all on this Earth for a time period. I know that life is exactly what you make of it. I want to start fresh. I want to refrain from negative thoughts and only look at the positive. I know its hard to do when literally for me, I feel like I have so much I want to do in life but things are holding me back. This takes patience. I need to work on my patience and I’m willing to do so to keep my mind right.
So I challenge myself to figure out what is holding me back, work towards making the necessary changes, move forward and let God take the wheel. “Take the wheel Baby Jesus”. I know that this journey won’t happen over night. It will take some time to adjust. But I will work on it daily!
My question to you, is what do you do when life doesn’t seem to be moving like you would like? What are your thoughts on this? Do you ever feel like things won’t turn around? How do you stay positive or do you stay in a negative space?
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